Relationship Problem Advice – Rebounding from a Broken Relationship
Here’s some Relationship Problem Advice you can really use.
How often have you seen one of your acquaintances break up with a long-term mate only to find, the very next week, somebody who was obviously all wrong for them? It’s one of the most common after effects of the end of relationships: rebound dating.
The idea of rebound relationships is so implanted into the way we think about dating that it just seems instinctive to look for one after a breakup. There’s something to be said for getting “back in the saddle,� picking out a partner when your mind is clouded usually does more harm than good overall. If you want to get over your ex fast, there are safer ways to do it.
Beware of the most convenient person
When we look for someone to rebound with, we need someone quick. We don’t have time to “waste� looking for someone we really click with, so we tend to latch on to someone we already know and have at least some rapport with. It might be a close friend, a co-worker, even someone who works at the grocery store down the street. If you find yourself falling for someone you’ve never been the least bit attracted to before, stop and think about what’s actually going on here.
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Last modified November 22, 2008Author 1868 > has blogged 79 times
